Lately it seems like I have been finding myself thinking about love stories and fairytale turn outs. For example while watching JP purpose to Ashley on the bachlorette( I know I am pathetic) I could not help but think that that was like a fairytale ending.... or atleast the producers made it look that way. Lets face it I realize life can't be one of those fairytales that we all grew up knowing about where everything is perfect but I do realize that I can and am creating MY fairytale. One that I am happy with and one that I can't help but be so proud of. My fairytale is filled with plenty of hard times and disappointments but all of them is what make it MINE. Certainly I grew up like any little girl thinkin of my prince charming and how awesome my wedding would be and how in love my future husband would be in with me but......So far my life is nothing typical, planned or traditional in any way. This used to upset me when I thought to hard about it because for a long time I wanted that traditional way...boy meets girl, fall in love, get married and have kids, yatta yatta yatta.
I have recently came to a conclusion that I ENJOY being un-traditional and atypical.
Why do I enjoy this so much???? Because this fairytale is ten times better then what I ever had pictured in my head for myself. I know I must be doing something right because I have one of the strongest relationships that I believe will never stop growing. I have such an amazing support system behind me that sets me up for nothing but success. My goals are becoming closer and closer to being reached each and everyday. How things are going for me I can't see not getting MY untraditional, atypical, unplanned, longtime coming FAIRYTALE.
Love this!! We all have our own fairytale! I love that picture of you girls at Disneyland. :)
ReplyDeleteSo cute Nicole. I think this is the truth for most everyone. Our lives seldom turn out the way that we think it will be. It takes a lot of positivity to see that what we're living really is the fairy tale. I know I love to give Mike crap, but seriously. I love Mike and I couldn't be happier that he is with someone who appreciates who he really is. He's such a good guy.
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